My name is Kayla and I live in New Jersey with my husband of 2 years and our two cats, Odie and Simcoe. Self-care and self-love are two things I have struggled with, and continue to struggle with, a lot in my life and I know that I am not alone. I wanted this blog to be an outlet for myself, as well as a way for me to connect with other people and share some ways of coping that I have come to rely on. This is really outside of my comfort zone for me as I am a pretty private person. But I have learned lately that opening up about your struggles is one really great way to deal with your struggles. I’m no expert and I’m not claiming to be. I’m just a girl in her late 20’s, handling all of the daily stresses like advancing in my career, preparing to buy a home and start a family, saving money, spending too much money, saving money again, and trying to make it through the day without too much stress and anxiety! I’ll be posting about all of the ways I have come to deal with my anxiety and stress over the years, as well as some fun and relaxing suggestions that will help you to put up your Do Not Disturb sign and get some well-needed alone time.